This was me from November - May.

Vulnerable Share....this was me from November - May.

What is happening for many of you, is that you are spending so much time in the past (sometimes getting caught up in a Victim Story).

The world is happening TO ME, not FOR ME.

Vulnerable Share....this was me from November - May. I had a feeling I had been swimming in Victim mindset for a little bit and then I had a session with one of my Coach’s and we got real clear (that’s why I love Coaching so much: CLARITY!).

The reality was, I still had some unhealed wounds from my Dad that had surfaced around November. Something I say often, is that you are never truly “healed” you are always on the healing journey, it never stops.

This became true for me.

Two words became very clear for me around May that were keeping me in Victim mindset which was ultimately energetically suffocating me and my growth/healing, keeping me stagnant and leaving me feeling frustrated. Very frustrated.

Those 2 words were “safety” & “security”. It became very clear to me that my root Chakras (energy centers in the body) where Safety & Security are held, were not aligned.

I was not feeling grounded that I could create what I wanted to at the time, that it was for others and not me (which is a belief stemmed back from my Dad).

Although my relationship with God over that past years has truly been transformation for me, I was still creating my word from a sense of lack and not feeling grounded with who I truly Be and that knowing of what I am able to create. Since my Dad’s death I had been unable to tap into that deep rooted knowing.

This was a VERY VERY challenging season for me friends.

It was effecting every area of my life.

So I began to do the work just as my clients do.

I began to stop focusing off of what I thought was happening to me and leaned into remembering this life is happening and actually rooting for me.

I began to stop putting so much pressure on a certain area of my life and began focusing what was already going well and cultivating more appreciation for what is right now.

I did more forgiveness work with my Dad as he had just been doing his best with the up bringing he had.

I forgave myself and leaned in to remembering I too am a human being doing my best with the knowledge I had, with unhealed wounds that were ruffled up from my Dad’s death.

I leaned into my Faith even more and gave up the pressure I had been carrying around to God. I surrendered to His Way and got out of my own way (my way was clearly not working and leaving me feeling frustrated all the time).

There is a lot of effort that goes into healing and creating shift for what you are experiencing and it doesn’t have to HARD.

You Get to Create the Experience you Want to Have.

During this time I began creating my experience from more love and appreciation.

I have since felt much lighter and brighter. I have done the Work to be the grounded Women and Waymaker I am today.

I still have glimpses of the “victim” and instead of getting mad about her showing up, I love her and thank her for reminding me of Who I Really AM.

I am perfectly imperfect.

I am grateful for all that I have.

I am grateful for all that is coming.

I am grateful for all that has been.

I am a Waymaker because I have been there, I am able then to support you in creating a Way.

I am loved and forgiven.

I am experiencing the best moment, THIS MOMENT.

And I am open to all the miracles this day will bring!

I share so that I can support you on your journey.

If you are ready to begin again and create something different for yourself, begin with the next step, filling out my Application: https://forms.gle/gGgmQ1KsB7LZrEiq7 

I see you,

I love you,

I am you,

Theresa Falvey-Hunt

Life|Grief Coach

Waymaker